Ive noticed alot of people using the butterfly as a symbol for their child after death. They see butterflies and or release butterflies and it reminds them of their lost little ones. I don't actually see Jack as a butterfly. He always reminds me more of a big hairy moth.
A butterfly is flashy; it's beauty is very apparent. Yet with a moth you don't see that beauty right away. At first when a big hairy moth flies out we are afraid of it or shocked but if you really stop to take a closer look you will see its strength of character, its beautiful markings, its silky furry body and then realize that it is just as beautiful as a butterfly -maybe even more so. Jack was also a very hairy kid lol. Someday maybe I'll have a big hairy moth release and watch them all fly erratically and mischievously get into every one's hair and clothes.
I would have loved to dress you up as a big hairy moth with wings for Halloween my baby. I think Daddy would have insisted on something more traditional . Either way you would have been the cutest dressed up baby ever.
Love you so much. Jack and Mummy forever
*Whether it was how your baby looked, their personality, how they were in your tummy or just how you would have pictured them; do you have something that represents your child or reminds you of them ?